If you are not first, or can't be a leader in something, then create a new category. Doing this will alow you to become the leader in something. Take everything you learnt when reflecting on leadership and consider what is the reframe. What is it that only you can do, considering your experience in life? Ask yourself what categories am I currently in, what others could I explore? What new category can I create?
“No person has the power to have everything they want, but it is in their power not to want what they don’t have, and to cheerfully put to good use what they do have.” Seneca
“If a man knows not which port he sails, no wind is favourable.” Seneca
Mate, I wish you were really here and on the spot with me. Firstly, because people believe their eyes more than their ears. Secondly, because the road to personal succes is a long one if you only read and consume information. But short and effectual if done with others, learning from personal examples.