If you are not first, or can't be a leader in something, then create a new category. Doing this will alow you to become the leader in something. Take everything you learnt when reflecting on leadership and consider what is the reframe. What is it that only you can do, considering your experience in life? Ask yourself what categories am I currently in, what others could I explore? What new category can I create?
Mate, I wish you were really here and on the spot with me. Firstly, because people believe their eyes more than their ears. Secondly, because the road to personal succes is a long one if you only read and consume information. But short and effectual if done with others, learning from personal examples.
Do they not know cleaning sucks. That I don't want to use my free energy to clean, I want to use it to play, to write, to work. Maybe use some of the lessons to get fit. But clean. Stuff that.
Do you know the steps to take to create your personal brand? Do you know the key attributes of your brand? Getting it righ can help you succeed in your career.