Even love has its own strategy.
It is when one person is not fulfilling anothers strategy that we find issues.
- Elicit each other’s love strategy by asking
- Can you remember a time when you knew you were totally loved? A specific time?
- As you think of that time, in order to know that you are totally loved is it absolutely necessary for you to be:
- Taken placed and bought things or shown in other ways
- Or That you hear it in that special way with that special tone of voice
- Or That you be touched in that special way
- Decide and communicate how you prefer to be loved
- Develop the habit of consistently utilizing your partner’s love strategy by:
- Remain conscious of not falling back into fulfilling your own strategy
- Continue to communicate; state it how you want it, reinforcing new strategies with acknowledgment of and positive response to it fulfilment