Mate, I wish you were really here and on the spot with me. Firstly, because people believe their eyes more than their ears. Secondly, because the road to personal succes is a long one if you only read and consume information. But short and effectual if done with others, learning from personal examples.
Think about it, wild animals run from the dangers they actually see, and once they have escaped them worry no more. We however are distressed by our past and future. A number of our gifts do us harm. Memory brings back the agony of fear while foresight brings it on prematurely. No one confines their unhappiness to the present.
Ask nature: She will tell you that she mad both day and night. Seneca